Well its been a while since I’ve posted and I’ve been on a bit of an emotional rollercoaster and I was sure whether I was coming and going. I don’t talk about it with anyone, really. I try and speak to hubby but you can see that its more of an inconvenience. He wants the… Continue reading I’m back…..
Sorry about the title,but that’s exactly what this post is about. You spend so long going through the IVF process wishing for no discharge or blood, hoping and praying every time you wipe that there is nothing. I did this every day, 4-5 times a day for nearly 3 months and then it happens. You… Continue reading Periods after Miscarriage and CCG Appeals
It’s Easter Monday, I wake up feeling a bit better. The whole miscarriage process in terms of support and pain have been awful. It is an emotionally draining time but to have everything else with it makes it all the worse. I do not need chronic pain to remind me of what I’m going through.… Continue reading Miscarriage after care or lack of…Part 3
I managed the second day ok-ish. Co-codomol has helped and I’ve managed some sleep. The third day, which just happens to be Easter Sunday the pain is really bad. I’ve taken co-codomol, paracetamol and iburofen and nothing is touching it. I get a hot water bottle and it just aggravates worse when I put it… Continue reading Miscarriage aftercare or lack of…Part 2
If you’ve read my last post you will see that sadly we suffered a delayed miscarriage. We were sent home with crappy photocopied leaflets and told to call back when we decided what to do. We get home, my dad and his wife leave immediately and I’m thankful for that. I need silence and to… Continue reading Miscarriage aftercare or lack of…Part 1
I did the two pregnancy tests and all was ok. I went for the 6 week scan, size a little off and heartbeat a little slow but not too worrying. Come back next week for another scan. Went for a scan at 7 week, size fine and heartbeat perfect. Phew! Happily carrying on pregnant and… Continue reading Sorry for the lack of posts
The culmination of our IVF is down to these final weeks, with pregnancy tests and scans. It’s everything we’ve been working towards for the last few months and you need everything to be as calm and relaxed as possible outside of the IVF bubble. In my last post I did my first my first scan… Continue reading A chink of light in a sad week